I just had some very sad news - the father of one of my best friends died on New Years Eve.
She is in the UK, and has been a close friend of mine for nearly 30 years. His death was not unexpected as he had been ill for some time, but that does not make it any easier.
What I most want to do is hug her and hug her, but cannot do that as she is half the world away. I've had to be content with sending messages via email and social media, but so wish I could afford to just jump on a plane and be with her at this time.
It has made me consider just how lucky I am. I have both my parents, and am fortunate that they are in their mid-late 60s (so not terribly old) and are in good health. Certainly, they are in the UK, but we email each other regularly and skype every week so we see each other.
I also have my loving family around me here. My wonderful husband, who is also my best friend, has walked my path with me for the last 20 years without any cross words passing between us. Our 2 gorgeous sons are growing up into fine young men with whom we share fantastic relationships. My in-laws visit us every other Christmas and spend around 6 weeks living with us and sharing in our lives.
How blessed I feel when I think of these people. Their presence in my life makes my own journey a little easier and a lot more interesting. I value the moments we share and treasure the memories that I have.
My heart is heavy today, thinking of my fabulous friend and the sadness she is going through. Love and hugs go out to her.
Go in peace Des. 1931 - 2012.
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